Thursday, 19 April 2018

14 Signs Telling You That You're Bad in Bed and You Don't Even Know It

Most people often not realize if they've truly satisfied their partner. While sex to some becomes a major part of their relationship, there are still those who might have stayed just because you can satisfy their desires.


There is no right or wrong foundation to a relationship, as long as two people agree on the same thing and get along.


If your partner recently commented on your performance in bed, here's a list that can help you identify what's lacking.

1. YOU DON'T COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER


While most of the time moaning will be the best way to express your feelings, telling your partner what you want and your fantasies, may help spice it up.


2. YOU PASS OUT IMMEDIATELY


This is a big No-No. One thing that's best about sex is the give and take relationship. Make sure you satisfy your partner before sleeping.

3. FAKE ORGASM RUINS THE MOMENT


Some ladies might need more foreplay time before the big O, so make sure you pay her enough attention so you'd be both smiling to sleep and have an unforgettable night.

4. ORAL SEX


If you're a little off about performing oral sex, it might not satisfy your partner the way you hope it would be. Try thinking of a way you can both enjoy if you're still not open to the idea.

5. YOU’RE NOT TAKING YOUR TIME


Give more time in pleasuring your partner rather than focusing on your satisfaction. Try prolonging the foreplay for a more satisfying climax.


6. FORGETTING THE FOREPLAY


Foreplay is important to the ladies more than it does to men. Best focus on activities or things you can do to prolong foreplay.

7. YOU DON'T GIVE AS MUCH TO YOUR PARTNER


Nobody wants a lover that only focuses on their satisfaction. Make sure you pay attention to what your partner wants too.

8. YOU DONT PARTICIPATE



Sex is about two people pleasuring each other so stop laying still and taking all the pleasure. Find a way to pleasure your partner while you are being pleasured too.

9. YOU FOCUS ON THE CLIMAX


Don't be selfish, make sure you both finish. Try doing different positions or doing it in different parts of the house.

10. YOU’RE SO IMMATURE


Some ladies throw a tantrum or act goofy during a steamy or intimate moment with their partner, little did they know most of the time it ruins the mood of their partner. Avoid that attitude and stay and cherish the moment, so you both enjoy the intimacy.


11. YOU DON’T WANT TO BE IN-CHARGE


Don’t be lazy, doing the deed or taking the lead sometimes will make the intimate moment more enjoyable and will push your partner to perform better.

12. YOU DON’T GIVE YOUR WHOLE ATTENTION TO YOUR PARTNER


Stay focus and pay more attention to your partner especially when they respond to your touch and techniques. If you notice that they enjoy the things you do for them, keep those things in mind so you can do it again the next time you make love.

13. YOU’RE NOT PREPARED FOR THE WHOLE LOVE MAKING


Not being prepared for the lovemaking will ruin the mood of your partner such as not carrying a condom and that will kill the intimacy.

14. YOU FEEL INSECURE


Some ladies feel insecure with their bodies, and that is one of the reasons why they don’t show their best performance during lovemaking with their partner. Due to low performance, she and her partner won’t enjoy the sex at all. Work on your self-confidence and performance and see how it affects your sex life.

source: elitereaders




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